Voice of the Spirit

This is part 3 in a series of posts.  Click here for Part 1. 

Here in this final installment, I conclude this three-part series by writing about five “Phrases and Questions” that we’ve all either asked a psychic, or frequently heard addressed in readings.  

“I saw then in my dreams before we met”

Regarding this phrase, most clients express their utter astonishment when they actually physically meet someone who they first saw in their dreams.  In every instance where any client of mine has had this experience, they always think of first seeing this person in their dreams as a wonderful divine foreshadowing – and that these dreams absolutely indicate that this individual they eventually met must be “the one.” 

Why?  Because from a spiritual perspective, we tend to associate our dreams with information and meanings that are transcendent, from higher power and tied into our destiny.  In this instance, dreams become visions to us.  And with that, there are huge expectations that come when meeting the person who has first been revealed to us in our dreams,  that they must be sent from God, how this person is only there to serve a wondrous purpose for us, and they have to be our life partner – in short, our soul mate.

However, we must step back a minute and ask the following question: Just because any of us see another person in our dreams who later comes into our life physically, does that mean that this individual is only capable of serving the single purpose of being “the one?”  On top of that, will they be simply wonderful?

We must acknowledge that our dreams provide us with information and that seeing someone first in our dreams who we later meet means that this person will be quite relevant and important to us in one way or another, but not always in either a positive or a negative way.  Our dreams could be telling us any number of things, such as a warning that the person we see will be dangerous and damaging when they cross our path.  They may be such an intensely negative person once we meet them, that our dreams are literally warning us for our own safety and protection.

A dream could reveal to us that someone we will meet could offer a positive romantic relationship, but one that is only temporary.  This person may not offer us a “till death do us part” commitment, but they may offer something beneficial to us in the short run.

Our dreams could show us that an individual may be sent to help with something other than what we thought (that it might not be a romantic relationship, but of a different nature).  We often think that a person we see in our dreams must be in our lives for the “ultimate” relationship – a romantic one, as opposed to perhaps a business partnership or friendship.

We may see someone in our dreams who may indeed be a possible long term relationship, but one that is complicated and not necessarily easy.  Just because they appear in our dreams, doesn’t mean that there won’t be difficulties and/or serious complications.

Sometimes it may be true that we do indeed see our divine romantic life partner first in our dreams.  Then, we will meet them in the physical world at some point in the future.

Regardless of whether a person serves a positive and/or negative purpose once we meet them, we hardly look dispassionately at anyone who initially appears in our dreams who we later meet in the flesh.  This is exactly what happened to Elaina once she met the man she had been seeing in her dreams.

Elaina was a woman who had a reoccurring dream several times over a period of a few months where she saw the same man:  He was 6’0” feet tall, slender, had short dark wavy hair, was 40 years old, had a mole on the left side of his face, and his name was Ray.  Captivated by who this mystery man could be, she called me for a reading, ostensibly to inquire about who this “Ray” person really was.

“Jim, I have been seeing the most totally amazing man in my dreams, who is simply everything I’ve wanted.  Jim, I can feel him touching me in my dreams and the experience is completely cosmic.  I’ve never felt this way about anyone who I’ve ever been with – and yet, I haven’t even met him.  What does this all mean?” she inquired.

Immediately, I could feel the energy and I picked up that her dream was “real” — meaning that this person did exist and that indeed Elaina would meet him.  I told her, “Elaina, I feel that you will meet this man in just a few weeks and that everything you’re seeing about his description is right to me.  However, I do not get a good feeling about him at all.  He’s coming in to your life to try and take advantage of you sexually, financially, and he’ll try and move in with you rather quickly.  He doesn’t have anywhere to live right now, as his girlfriend is throwing him out of her place where he lived because of his continual cheating and emotional abuse.  This dream is serving the purpose of warning you about this very damaging and dangerous situation that you need to completely avoid.”

However, Elaina didn’t want to hear this information at all, as she had already decided that “Ray” was the one.  After all, she rationalized, why would she be seeing him in her dreams if he wasn’t?  I tried to explain to her again that these reoccurring dreams were warnings – that yes, he does exist — and yes, he really will come into the picture, but NOT for the positive purpose Elaina had already convinced herself of.

Elaina refused to heed the warning spirit shared with her through our reading, simply because it wasn’t what she emotionally wanted to hear.  Then, a few weeks after our reading, Elaina did meet Ray and he appeared to be everything she thought he would be.  On top of that, he was attracted to her and began pursuing a relationship with her immediately.  The sex was electrifying and within days, he tried to move in with Elaina.  Because of how adamantly Elaina believed Ray was “the one,” she let him move in with her in spite of the warning spirit gave to her through the reading with me.

Then the trouble started…She started seeing emails from Ray to other women that were sent from her own computer and his attitude began changing.  After talking Elaina into co-signing for a new truck, Ray never made payments on the vehicle.  He started getting into serious mood swings, especially after being out and about, supposedly to look for a new job.  In reality, he had already begun cheating on her with women who lived near Elaina, and Ray would come home after cheating on Elaina with a defensive attitude as a way of avoiding being confronted about his whereabouts.  

Due to her lofty expectations, she rationalized that this was all because his ex had hurt him, so he was just acting out.  She falsely believed that her love would cure the situation and refused to cut her ties with Ray and have him move out.

Then, after six months, everything caved in.  One day while Elaina was at work, Ray moved out, took his truck and stole all the money she had at home in cash.  Worse than that though, is because of co-signing for the truck, she had the choice of either continuing to make the payments on the truck (which were about five hundred dollars per month), or not make the payments anymore, which would cause her to be legally liable and ruin her credit.  As Elaina was an ethical person, she continued to make the truck payments until the truck was finally paid off years later.  Even after the truck was paid off, Elaina still didn’t have closure, as she was still deeply missing Ray being in her life.

About three years after our first reading when I initially honed in on her reoccurring dreams where she was seeing “Ray,” Elaina called me back for another reading in tears.  Devastated, financially strapped and broken hearted, she didn’t know what to do when she said to me, “Jim, I saw him in my dreams and that must have meant that he was “the one.”  “Is he coming back?  Did I mess it up somehow?” she further questioned. 

I told her, “Elaina, just because someone appears in any of our dreams that we later meet in the physical world, does not mean that they’re sent from the heavens above.  Remember that spirit warned you about Ray, but the choice was of course up to you.”  I added, “There was nothing you could have done to make the situation work as Ray was only out to use you, and I also feel that Ray will never come back to you, as he already got what he wanted out of the situation.”

The very painful story of Elaina shows us that no matter how titillating, cosmic, transcendent and divine a dream appears to be where we see someone who we eventually meet, it must be looked at on a deeper level — one that is objective, dispassionate and without emotional bias.  Simply stated, each one of these situations must be looked at on a case by case basis.

When we’re on a spiritual path, it’s easy to think that these types of dreams are magical revelations and they only represent one thing – something wondrously positive where we meet “the one” – but that is not always the case.  Think of seeing someone first in your dreams that you meet later in the flesh as giving you an FYI before the fact – but never assume that those facts are exclusively positive or negative, as each dream and person is its own unique chapter and passage in our lives.  By knowing who and what this mystery person really is, we can make the right choice that is for our highest good once they indeed step out of our dreams and into our lives.

Do they really love me?  Do they really care for me?

Often, a client calls a reader to help clarify and define what their love interest truly feels for them, as there have been mixed signals, confusion, mind games, deception, cheating, and/or no contact with that person at all.  As these two questions, “Do they really love me?” and “Do they really care for me?” seem to be rather straightforward in daily life, they can take on a completely different tone in a psychic reading – one that is emotionally loaded, misleading, and utterly confusing.

When clients ask these questions of a reader, they often have intense emotional attachments and strong expectations of how they want their particular situation to unfold.  They may only be open to an answer they want to hear, which is that the person in question DOES love them and that they really DO care as well. 

In addition, the client absolutely expects that the reader will ever so graciously and reassuringly state in the reading that everything will work out in the long run, whether that is true or not.  Clients seem to erroneously believe that if any psychic tells them that their love interest really does love them and truly does care, that one way or another, things will absolutely have to work out in the big picture.  Of course, this falsely indicates that the happy story book ending will occur.  

However, just like with any question in a reading, in must be looked at on a situation by situation basis with no prewritten one dimensional answer or expectations from either the client or the reader.  The insights that come through from spirit could entail anything from, “No this person doesn’t love or care for you at all,” to “Yes, they really do indeed love you and deeply care for you, and will propose marriage in a short time!” 

And while there are some clients who really do want to hear the truth (whether the news is good or bad), there are many who only want their own emotional reality and ego spoon fed back to them.  Some clients will go to any length to first believe what they want to, and then solicit a reader who will confirm and validate those beliefs.  To some observers, it may all seem like merely a waste of time and money to hear inaccurate fantasy based information in a reading, but that no long term damage will occur. 

However, the combination of a client who solicits a reader to tell them what they want to hear, coupled with a reader who will offer false “positive” predictions to the client to rubber stamp their emotional reality and beliefs is a complete recipe for disaster: financially, emotionally, spiritually and psychologically.

There are some readers who pick things up through “telepathy” – meaning, they can legitimately feel what the client is sending out and pick up on what the client is feeling.  Then, they feed back to the client everything that they already believe to be true, much like holding up a mirror to the client and reflecting back their reality as gospel truth.  So in this instance, a telepathic reader mimics where the client is at in their own mind.

For this type of reader, they never help a client to grow or manifest a better life.  Their “insights” and “predictions” are based on the limits of whatever the client already perceives.  And the clients themselves have already made up their minds (whether they admit it or not) before calling a reader.  They are simply looking to have a psychic totally and irrevocably validate where they’re emotionally at, tell them what they want to hear and rubber-stamp their reality.  These types of clients erroneously believe that by hearing it said from a reader, somehow helps to make it come true, which is of course false.  If the information is inaccurate, it doesn’t matter who is saying it and how.

John had been with a woman named Ashley for six months and during that time, Ashley was in and out of the picture, and had cheated on him.  However, John was completely obsessed with the idea that Ashley really loved him and truly cared for him, so he chose to believe that this is how she felt, even though he hadn’t heard from her in over two years.  In addition, she refused and contact from John, and he also believed that he would hear from Ashley very soon.  So John began looking for a psychic who would clearly tell him that Ashley really did love him, that she really did care, and that he would hear from her soon. 

As he started browsing online for a reader to call, he came across a psychic named Sandra who claimed to know “Exactly what another person is feeling toward you.”  When John read her listing, he was elated and he immediately called Sandra.  When she answered the phone, John simply asked Sandra about “Ashley.”

Sandra replied, “She has blonde hair, is about 5’7,” and I’m also picking up that one of her parents died about the time the two of you met.” 

John was flabbergasted and proclaimed, “Yes, yes, that is exactly right.  I am picturing her in my mind right now.  You are so gifted Sandra.  Wow, I’m so glad that I found you!” 

“By the way, John, I really pick up that Ashley does love you and that she cares for you very much as well,” Sandra confirmed.  “In fact, you will be hearing from her very shortly,” Sandra added.

Even though John initially felt like he was on cloud nine, Sandra wasn’t psychically picking up anything accurately, but simply feeling telepathically what John was sending out and believed to be true.  Since John felt Sandra was so “in tune” as she said everything he felt he already knew, John kept calling Sandra for the next three years.  But throughout that time, Ashley never called him, or responded to any of his attempted contacts with her.  Eventually, John finally moved on, relinquished his attachment to Ashley, and then stopped calling Sandra, who had been ultimately of no value to him at all as a reader.

Here we see that such simple questions as, “Do they really love me?” and “Do they really care for me?” in the context of a reading can be quite misleading, as seen by John’s experience.  His emotions, ego, false beliefs, refusal to let Ashley go, coupled with a reader who was only able to pick up on what John was sending out and feeling, turned out to be a time consuming disaster.  As we look at our own situations where we may ask these two simple questions in a reading, we must first listen with an open mind and heart to receive the truth that spirit is always willing to provide to us.  Secondly, we must only seek a reader who does not just feed back to us where we’re at, but gives us accurate and truthful insights, predictions and counsel, if we ever want to manifest a better life.

What are their true feelings for me?

The danger with this question being asked by a client in a reading is that is presupposes things that should never be assumed: first, that the person in question has feelings for the client at all, and secondly, that these feelings must also be “true.” 

In this context, the word “true” suggests so many things that cannot be assumed in a reading: that the person being asked about has feelings for the client other than they’re showing, these feelings must be real and better than what has been present (which is indicated simply by the mere connotation of what the word “true” means), and there has to be feelings which are deeper for the client than are currently being shown. 

The entire implication of this question when asked in a reading is that there is much more emotional depth to the relationship that meets the eye.  Sometimes that may be accurate, while other times, it isn’t at all.  However, the actual question is leading and puts the reader in a very difficult spot.  It positions the psychic to have to either say that there are indeed “true” feelings and describe what they are; or look like an ogre if what they feel and say to the client is, “I don’t pick up that this person has any other feelings for you than what you’ve seen.  What you’ve seen are their actual true feelings.”

But none of these presuppositions should EVER be assumed in a reading, and the mere fact the question is asked in this way is manipulative on the client’s part.  In this situation, some psychics will tell the truth, which could be that there either are or aren’t “true” feelings, while other readers would deliberately lie to manipulate the client’s trust and wallet.  Yet there are those readers who only allow themselves to see and forecast happy endings.  Even though they believe what they’re saying is accurate and they do possess legitimate psychic ability, they are too caught up in their inability to see anything other than a fairy tale ending to be accurate in the big picture and in the long run.  And when what they say is fantasy based, it feeds into the client’s emotional frame of mind and strengthens the very emotions they desperately need to let go of.

Suzie called her psychic Juliette to ask about the man Jason who had been driving her crazy for about five years.  This man was back and forth, never offered commitment, and had cheated on her quite a bit.  However, every tine Suzie tried to end the relationship, he would do whatever he could to keep it going, from crying to making false promises of a better future.  For these five long years, Suzie always believed that this man head deeper feelings for her than were indicated through his actions.  Suzie thought that after all, he had cried several times when Suzie was ready to dump him and she believed that his promises were sincere and from the heart.  So she called her reader Juliette.

“Hey Juliette, this is Suzie again.  Do you remember that guy we’ve talking about, Mr. Crazy Jason, you know, the one I’ve been on and off with for five years?  Well, he’s at it again.  I caught him with that other girl, remember, her name is Jessica.  Let me tell you though, in spite of all of his nonsense, I know that he really does care for me.  Please tell me, “What are his true feelings for me?” Suzie questioned.

Since Juliette is a fantasy based reader who only allows herself to believe in happy endings, her response was clouded by her own subjective bias when she said, “His “true” feelings are that he really does loves you.  Right now, I keep getting a vision of him putting a ring on your finger.  Beneath all of his stuff, the cheating, ego, selfishness and attitudes, he really does care for you deeply.  He couldn’t live without you, and you just have to wait it out and be patient.  Deep inside, he’s such a great guy.”

Suzie burst into tears, “I know his “true” feelings are so much deeper and real than what he shows me.  I’ve seen it in those crazy eyes of his.  Hey, girlfriend, I know this man better than he knows himself.  Thank you for the truthful and accurate confirmation of what I already knew deep inside.”

Even though this exchange between Suzie and Juliette is heartfelt and emotionally sincere, it isn’t accurate – and therefore, not helpful to Suzie and her future choices at all.  As Jason’s “true” feelings were exactly what he had been regularly showing her for five long years.  Yes, he liked Suzie to a certain point, but he didn’t love her.  In reality, he found her boring and didn’t feel that their sexual connection was strong enough to marry her. 

In the meantime, though, he was selfishly interested in having his cake and eating it too, so his tears and false promises were always disingenuous and manipulative, solely, to keep Suzie in his life on his terms.  Why?  Because it was convenient for him to use Suzie till he found the woman he really wanted to settle down with.  But again, he didn’t have deeper, or what can be referred to as “true” feelings in the reading other than what he had already shown Suzie.

In the end, after a total of seven years, Jason did actually find the woman he wanted to marry, and then, predictably, he dumped Suzie and got married to the new woman.  Of course it was cruel what he did to Suzie, but if she would have been willing to ask about the relationship in a straightforward way to a psychic who would have delivered the truth, she could have left Jason on her terms and moved on with her life to meet someone else.

Instead of asking the question, “What are their true feelings for me?” it would be so much better and far more productive to simply rephrase the question to, “Do they have true feelings for me?” and/or “Do they have any other feelings for me than what they’ve already shown me?”  This way, the question is asked in a non-leading, non-manipulate way that opens the door for whatever the truth is to come through.  It is the truth that both clients and readers must always be in search of, as it is the only thing that can truly help a client to correctly face the challenges and decisions that are in front of them.

What does he see in her?

Feeling jilted and devastated by being dumped, the question of, “What does he see in her?” is frequently asked by clients in a reading.  But is it a question that is asked merely to receive information, in a sense, to fill in the blanks and offer an explanation of what happened?  Or does the emotional volatility of the client set them off if the reader feels that their ex is better off with the new woman and that he has found someone more suited for him? 

Here, this seemingly innocent question in a reading can be a vehicle for many contradictory possibilities: a venting session where both the client and/or the psychic bash the new woman; worse yet, the client “shoots the messenger” if the client isn’t willing to hear the truth when the reader explains what her ex indeed sees in another woman; or in the best case scenario, the reading offers clarity of why and what occurred so the client can successfully move on with their life if the client is receptive to the information that is offered.

Sally called me for a reading and was simply beside herself because her husband of twenty years, Allan, a doctor, left her for another woman, which was followed by his and Sally’s divorce.

“Jim, I don’t know why he did this to me.  I was there for him through thick and thin.  I helped put him through medical school and supported him all the way.  The house was spotless, his clothes were washed and pressed; I never denied him sex.   I kept his schedule and things were always taken care of.  What went wrong?  What does he see in her that I don’t have?” Sally questioned.

What came through to me from spirit was, “Sally, even though you did everything for him and I know you love him, I feel that you may have been too controlling and bossy.  I feel that the two of you met when you were both eighteen years old.  Is that right?”

“Well, that is right.  We met when we both finished high school,” Sally confirmed.

“Allan hadn’t developed into being the man he would eventually become.  Back then, I feel that he was weaker and that you were always the one in control of everything and that control continued throughout the entire marriage,” I stated.

She paused, and then responded, “You know, I hate to admit it, but you’re right.  I was bossy and domineering.  Even my sister told me to back off of Allan, or he would get tired of me and leave me.  But I was too stubborn to change my ways.  I always wanted everything done right and my way and felt that he needed me to tell him what to do.”

“Sally, I feel that what he sees in his new partner Andrea is that she allows him to be who he is, for better or worse, and doesn’t try to control him.  That’s the main thing he sees in her.  Plus, he’s at a point in his life where he doesn’t want everything to be perfect.  He doesn’t want to work as much and wants to let his life unfold in a less rigid way than it had been with you.  Andrea will allow him to do that,” I said.  “It’s nothing against you, but I feel that he’ll be better off with her and that as you heal, you’ll find the right man for you as well,” I further added.

At first, she had a hard time accepting that Allan would never come back to her, as if his relationship with Andrea was only temporary, but deep down, she knew that what I was saying was right.  After about a year or so, she let go of the hope that she and Allan would reunite, especially after he married Andrea. 

Also, through releasing Allan, Sally met a new man named Joseph who proposed marriage to her.  This new man was a better fit for Sally, as he would tell her when she was getting bossy and not accept her dominance.  Allan, on the other hand, used to just avoid the confrontation and bury himself in his work.  Plus, Sally’s new partner Joseph was into structure and wanted everything to be in order all the time, which is how Sally felt as well.  They also ended up getting married like Allan and Andrea did, and now, Sally and Joseph are living happily together today.

Even though so many clients explode when a psychic tells them what their ex sees in their new partner because they don’t want to hear the truth even though they’ve asked the question, there are those who really do want to know why, and ultimately, they are able to heal their lives through accepting the truth.  Through that healing, they are able to meet someone who is right for them now at this time in their journey and potentially build a long term and successful future as Sally did.

How could this have happened to me?

I don’t think that there is anyone I’ve ever known who hasn’t screamed out loud at one time or another, “How could this have happened to me?!”  Usually these are things that fall under the heading of a severe disappointment to an out and out tragedy.  We like to think of these situations as ones where whatever happened to us simply could not be avoided.  It is not our fault, we rationalize, as taking responsibility for something horrific that we’ve had something to do with manifesting is hard for us to take.  Supposedly, we couldn’t have seen it coming, but in reality, we should have.

These are the times where the warning signs and red flags were there for us to see, but we chose to ignore them.  In these instances, we did what we wanted to do anyway and then, when something awful happens to us, we are quite upset and feel victimized.  But nonetheless, it was us who helped to manifest the tragedy we’ve experienced. 

If we seek a reading for insight, a psychic can help to point out how our choices created this situation in order for us to learn, hopefully heal and move on to a better life in the future.  But that all depends on whether we’re willing to listen or not.

Adam was a man who had been rather careless in his sexual choices, and even though the red flags were always there regarding the women he’d have sex with, he didn’t heed such warnings at all.  He regularly called his psychic Beatrice, but never listened to her advice when she repeatedly warned him of such sexual adventure and recklessness, “Adam, I keep feeling that you’re going to catch something very serious from one of these “bad girls.”  Please, honey, I beg you to stop sleeping with these women, as you don’t want a deadly sexually transmitted disease.”

Adam would just sort of blow off the information, as he was more interested to see if any of these “bad girls” would offer a commitment.  As time went on, Beatrice’s warnings become more pointed till one day, Adam called her and said, “I’ve got some bad news.  Remember the girl Gillette who I was seeing for about six months – the one who was an exotic dancer?  Well the doctor just told me that I’m HIV positive.  She was the only girl I had been having sex with, so the doctor said it came from her.  I am so pissed off, I can’t believe this.  How could this happen to me?  How could God do this?!  This isn’t fair!!” Adam shrieked.

“Whoa, whoa, hold on just a minute,” Beatrice said.  “This wasn’t God doing this to you, Adam, this was your choice.  I warned you over and over again and you refused to listen.  This did NOT have to happen to you, so don’t blame God for your misfortune.  Then, suddenly, the phone went dead….

The call went dead because he slammed down the phone, and then, never called Beatrice again.  As he refused to take responsibility for what he had created, Adam didn’t truly want his question to be answered.  Here, the answer to his question may seem obvious to any of us on the outside looking in, but Adam was caught up in his own emotions and desires as many of us have been and refused to heed the warnings the divine universe strongly provided to him.  His story is tragic but unfortunately, quite common.  But thankfully, all people who seek a reading with the question of why something happened to them are not like Adam.

Unlike Adam, there are times when there was absolutely nothing we did to manifest something that happened in our lives which was horrific.  There were no red flags or warning signs and nothing could have been done differently to see it, avoid it, or prevent it from occurring.

Who, consciously, would want to become disabled through a car accident in their prime, especially when the accident was not their fault?  Probably nobody, but this is exactly what happened to a successful lawyer named Dan.  On his way to work, he was driving safely when suddenly and unexpectedly, Dan was broadsided by a drunk driver.  The accident permanently disabled him where he wasn’t ever able to walk again, and as one would expect, he was devastated.  Confused and angry, he had lots of questions as to why this happened to him, so he called his psychic Sam to possibly find out why.

Sam is also a medium who can channel messages from the other side, and upon hearing what happened to Dan, he opened up to what would come through.  “Dan, my guides are telling me that this accident was meant to be and that the reason it happened is because you have a deeper calling in life than to just be a business lawyer.  You are here to offer legal help to victims of drunk drivers and to help change the laws to protect the innocent,” Sam said.

Dan responded, “I’ve never been through a challenge like this before, but hearing that gives me some semblance of hope, that somehow, what I’m going through is not just some random event that didn’t have to happen.  I will meditate on this and see where God leads me.”

As God never gives us more than we could handle, Dan allowed things to unfold in his life and his legal practice, and what happened was just as Sam had said it would.  Dan went on to actually change the drunk driving laws in his state, which helped to provide stiffer penalties for drunk drivers.  In addition, he represented victims who had been hit by drunk drivers in civil cases so they could sue for damages and be compensated properly for their pain and suffering.

As difficult as it has been for Dan, he has found a sense of peace that he could find meaning it what happened to him, and that was provided to him through the reading he had with Sam.  Today, he is still continuing the crusade against drunk drivers and suing on behalf of their victims. 

Here, we see two very different responses to the same seemingly basic and straightforward question posed by both Dan and Adam to their readers.  Dan allowed himself to learn and grow from the information spirit provided, while Adam, on the other hand, had been discarding all of invaluable advice offered to him by Beatrice all along and dearly paid the price.

Even though the terms, phrases and questions I’ve written about over the last three newsletters are so commonplace, the variety of reactions and the way the information is presented by readers and processed by clients is as variable as the number of people who ask these questions in a reading.  When client’s emotions are involved, and the varying levels of spiritual understanding and ethics of readers come into play, anything can happen – all from a mere seemingly basic term, phrase, and/or question.

It is a sobering thought for anyone having a reading to always remember to only seek ethical advice, and to listen with an open mind and heart as the right information is there for you if you wish to receive it, listen to it, heed it, and learn from it.  Remember, the divine universe with all of its incalculable power is not in the business of fooling and hurting any of us, but rather, a constant and eternal source of pure unconditional love, guidance, enlightenment, support, strength, well-being and protection.

This concludes my three part series, Common yet Misunderstood Terms, Phrases and Questions in a Reading.  I sincerely hope it has been enlightening, helpful and inspirational to you!

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